We have been considering the kind of input we need if we are to grow and mature as Christians based on what Paul wrote in 1st Thessalonians 2. As I was doing this study I was reminded of a poem that spoke deeply to me as a parent and pastor when I first read it. I have reflected on it many times since then. It states clearly what we have been studying. Most of us, especially our children, would agree with the poet:
“I’d rather see a sermon than hear one any day.
I’d rather one would walk with me than merely show the way.
I can soon learn how to do it if you’ll let me see it done,
I can watch your hands in action, but your tongue too fast may run.
And the lectures you deliver may be very wise and true,
but I’d rather learn my lesson by observing what you do.
For I may misunderstand you and the high advice you give.
But there is no misunderstanding how you act, and how you live.”
Wouldn’t you agree with the point the poet makes? The Christian teacher or mentor we seek should be experiencing in their own life what they are encouraging us to pursue. No, we shouldn’t expect perfection in them. But we should expect honesty, integrity, genuineness and authenticity.
If they fail, we should expect a willingness to acknowledge their failure. When we fail in trying to follow their teaching and training, we should expect understanding, gentleness and comfort. We should also expect a renewed challenge to press on to maturity.
Again, ask yourself, does this resonate with my experience? Do a reality check.
